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13
Oct

Life Without Title IX

On September 19, 2010 – almost 7 years ago to the day of Betsy DeVos’ decision to change key Title IX directives – I was raped by an acquaintance in my dorm room at Lindenwood University. Torn by guilt and shame, and knowing what could potentially lie ahead of me, I waited a week to …

20
Jun

Indian Social Enterprise Empowers Women – Includes Survivors of Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence

By Prateek Modi | Guest Blogger “You thought I’d be weak without you, but I’m stronger…  …You thought I’d be broke without you, but I’m richer. Thought I would be helpless without you, but I’m smarter. You thought I would die without you, but I’m living.” – Survivor, Destiny’s Child     ‘Empowerment’ starts with realizing …

10
Jun

10 Tips for Friends and Family of Sexual Violence Survivors

A collaborative effort by Kristine Irwin and Nikki Wolvert-Feller.   Regardless of how advanced our society has become, rape hasn’t become a subject that is easily discussed in public. And while sexual assault is often used for its broader definition and to lessen triggers, media outlets have often times substituted sexual assault when rape was …

18
Sep

To the Young Man Who Raped Our Daughter at College:

Tonic Immobility. We bet you do not know what that is. If you did, you would know that our daughter’s temporary paralysis was a result of you sexually assaulting her. To freeze was her response for the sake of survival when faced with the fear and physical restraint you put on her. We think you …

12
Sep

Linked: Sexual violence, mental health, & substance abuse

**Warning – the following guest post contains discussion and/or mention of: sexual violence and methods of sexual violence (grooming, threatening), mental health (including suicide, eating disorders, depression, PTSD, and anxiety), and substance abuse.** Sexual abuse and assault (sexual violence) are frequently at the root of a range of psychiatric disorders. Mental health challenges for survivors …

21
Aug

Hit Send

We at Still Standing were challenged to find someone who helped us through the journey from victim to survivor, and ask if there was one thing that person learned that could help others who are still in the midst of travelling with someone on the same journey. This wasn’t an easy task for me because …

2
Aug

I Stand by Still Standing

Empowering survivors through their stories. As simple of an idea as it is, it is also one of the greatest. Since learning about Still Standing, I have loved the mission. Not only can a survivor’s story empower themselves, but a survivor’s story is one of the best ways someone who hasn’t experienced sexual assault can …

1
Aug

Why I Stand with Still Standing

Marketing Director Joshua Jones feels more men should be involved in causes like ours. The following content is re-posted from his blog with permission.   About a year ago, I began volunteering with a group known as Still Standing. I, along with a group of other like-minded individuals, chose to give whatever time we could to promoting awareness …

31
Jul

“Clean”

Music and its lyrics are known for their impact on the brain. Here’s what Taylor Swift’s “Clean” suggested to one of our staff members: Share This:

30
May

The Panic Sets In….

Yesterday, I was asked if I could – and I quote – “please stop with the posts about being raped and sexual assault in general (not the first time I’ve asked). We all get it – it happened to you. Well, I’m sorry it did, but I don’t like being reminded of it when I’m …

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